ODDS and ENDS: The Rain, Making Breakfast, Coffee, and Tottenham

(Don’t go breakin’ my heart…)

I don’t know how things are where you live, but up here in New York, I think we are in the sixth weekend where it rains, especially on Saturdays. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes it’s nice to have a cold rain Saturday in Fall, where you can curl up on the couch, read a book, watch a movie, take a nap – you know, do cozy stuff. After six weeks of rainy weekends, I would like to see the sun and go outside and not get wet. In the Summer, sometimes we get in a pattern of five days of sun, then one rainy day, followed five or six days of sun, and the cycle repeats. But rain every weekend feels a bit like a punishment. “Tough week? Working for the weekend?” “Tough shit! You’re Stuck Inside!” On the spectrum of disappointments, six weeks of rainy weekends isn’t that bad. Yet I do wonder if this is some kind of record.

I know that I am not like most people, and I do have time in the morning. When I was working an office job, mornings were nothing but a rush, and not very pleasant. So now, with the extra time, I have started to try and treat the mornings as a calm start to the day, which includes a breakfast. Not a fruit bar, or frozen waffle, but a meal. Though it is a small meal, it is still a meal. I have noticed a few things after having done this for a month now. First, mornings are calmer for all of us now. Not as frantic, though some mornings getting the kid out the door can be a challenge. Second, with eating breakfast, I find that I don’t snack throughout the day. No mindless eating while working on things. The third thing I noticed about myself is that I feel like I have accomplished something. A while ago, I read that you should make your bed every morning because it will make you feel that you have order at the start of your day, and also that you have accomplished at least one task in your day. Yeah… I never felt like that when I made my bed. But, I do have that feeling after having eaten and fed my family. Just saying…

I need another cup of coffee.

Tottenham plays on Monday, which is annoying.


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  1. Darts and Letters Avatar
    Darts and Letters

    Interesting. Being a SAHD, the weather hasn’t really mattered to me at all for years, except when I’ve wanted to plan things on the weekend, when more of the rest of my family had free time to spend together. Sometimes all of us likes it when the weekends are rainy because everyone needs to rest and we know it but we need a reason to stay in place (although we like to be at home), it can be a big relief.

    But six weekends in a row, that’s a lot. We have different rain, the kind you can still do a lot of things in.

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    1. Matthew Groff Avatar
      Matthew Groff

      We spent a year in Norther California, and there was a rainy season there. That we could handle as it was expected. This, rain on every weekend, kills our ability to be outside. But hey, seems like every year is a little different. This is the “rainy year”

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