Month: November 2018

  • A Lot Has Happened

    So… I have been away for a month, and that wasn’t my intention. I have had several life changing events happen to me and my family, and it has taken a bit of time for me to get adjusted to my new reality.

    Not that I am trying to be mysterious, but one of the bigger things that has happened is that a decision was made, and the wife, I and the kid have moved to the west coast, and we are Californians.

    Goodbye, New York City.

    Hello, Golden State.

    My wife got a really badass job, and it was just too big of an opportunity for her to pass up. It took a lot of work, but we were able to get all of us out, and now I am learning how to deal with people who are not perpetually angry all the time.

    I’m also learning that I was perpetually angry all the time. And that I have to start learning how to let go of so many things that I thought were important, but really weren’t. I see now that I was stopping myself from enjoying life, and the people I chose to share it with. I can’t fully blame New York for that, I made the decision to be that person. Now I have the opportunity to reinvent myself. In a place where it is sunny, often.

    There are so many things that I need to write about, and now I will add changing locations to the mix.

    Let’s see what happens.